COLUMN: On being a woman: Perspectives from both sides of the gender line
We can all testify there are plenty of psychological, physiological and biological differences between men and women. We’ve all heard the stereotypes, the whining and the proud feminists. Now, before thinking I’m too proud and will run down the streets with a feminist flag or too weak to stand my ground, take a look at the top reasons I feel it’s great and not great to be a woman:
Pros
1. Women have the gift to bear children. Yes, I know the actual process is not something many women look forward to – however the miracle of bringing life into the world undoubtedly can’t be topped.
2. Women live longer. It has been proven that women live six years longer than men. A woman is expected to live until she is 80 years old, whereas a man is expected to live until he’s 74 years old.
3. Women communicate better. This correlates with reason number two. Women are often found chatting with friends and expressing their needs. This is healthy. Keeping emotions bottled up inside is not healthy.
4. Women don’t have to prove their estrogen. Men have more testosterone than women do. Thus, men feel the need to prove their masculinity. Men are naturally more aggressive and physically active. Guys, it’s OK to cry, express emotion or be sentimental, once in a while.
Cons
1. Well, our “monthly friend” would have to be No. 1. The menstrual period is something which was only given to women; however, if you look above at pro point number one, it’s all for a good cause.
2. Women are targets in the media. The media’s ideal image of a women has convinced us we are objects, must look like Barbie dolls, need to lose weight, lose inches and, my goodness, always look great.
Natural beauty is the best beauty of all, yet with the trends of makeup, hair tools and fashion accessories; this is an unspoken concept nowadays.
3. Women are a minority. If it weren’t for outstanding leaders like Susan B. Anthony and Gloria Steinem, who knows where political representation for women would stand today? We have made progress, but still have a ways to go.
4. The role of women around the world needs attention. This topic is both sad and makes my stomach churn. Unfortunately, a list of disturbing issues haunt women today – prostitution, abortion, abuse, neglect, and the list goes on. For both men and women, these issues arise in certain economic and social conditions.
This week is women’s week. Take the time to appreciate the women in your life, including your mother, grandmother, aunt, sister, cousin, wife, girlfriend and employees.
Jennifer Brennan is a junior majoring in journalism. Comments can be sent to jenbren@cc.usu.edu