LETTER: Gay debate needs respect

Editor,

The international community is facing quite a few defining decisions that tend to bring out the best and the worst in us all. Homosexual marriage is among those hot issues that is approaching that critical point of no return when to remain indifferent is difficult.

As recent events on campus have suggested, neither the majority nor the minority are inclined to remain silent on these issues that penetrate the very core of their values. As for this particular issue, it cannot rest. One side feels that the most basic relationship they know is at risk, that it is being confused, as well as the possibility that the demise of society is set at risk. The other side feels deprived of familial rights as a result of their difference and cannot rest until complete and equal recognition of marriage is granted everywhere.

Civil unions will not suffice; they will merely and temporarily satisfy the one and be tolerated by the other. Therefore, if you feel strongly for one definite side, your kindness and tolerance will be appreciated, but essentially you still stand in the way of your opposition’s goals.

Try if you will to be nonoffensive, but offense is intrinsic to your position. It’s nothing short of a societal football game. You will be despised by your opposition due to the obstacle that you are, or the advances you have gained. Can we deny human emotion in these issues? So, choose your ground and stand firm in the issues you believe in, for you will certainly be challenged sooner or later. And by all means keep to the rules of the game, respect your opponent and love one another.

Amy Jacobs