{"id":22113434,"date":"2021-02-07T10:14:38","date_gmt":"2021-02-07T17:14:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/?p=22113434"},"modified":"2021-02-07T10:14:38","modified_gmt":"2021-02-07T17:14:38","slug":"opinion-where-do-we-get-our-ideas-about-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/opinion-where-do-we-get-our-ideas-about-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"Opinion: Where do we get our ideas about relationships?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201c<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0314331\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Love Actually<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d is a classic rom-com beloved by many, but I cannot stand that movie.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the big reasons I don\u2019t like the film is the infamous card scene where Mark declares his love for his best friend\u2019s wife, Juliet. Romantic movies, especially rom-coms, tend to reinforce gender roles and forgive attractive people for dangerous patterns of behavior like stalking, excessive jealousy and overstepping boundaries.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another example of the behaviors that Hollywood glamorizes is kissing someone to stop them from speaking, like the scene at the end of \u201c<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt1001508\/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He\u2019s Just Not That Into You<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">between Gigi and Alex. This typically is instigated by the guy, especially when the girl is defending herself or explaining why something he did was wrong or hurtful. This reinforces the idea that women have to be complacent and tolerate toxicity and even abuse from their male partners.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hollywood also promotes the practice of neglecting friendships for the sake of a relationship. Not only is this detrimental to the friendship, it is also unhealthy to spend all of your free time with a significant other. It\u2019s understandable to want to spend time with your significant other, but you should have friends and hobbies and be able to exist happily outside of each other.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This reflects a recurring theme in the media: the romaticization of toxic and problematic behaviors. Hollywood isn\u2019t the only guilty party. Hollywood produces toxic and abusive relationships and social media further glamorizes them and spreads them to a wider audience.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are plenty of examples of abusive couples that have a huge fanbase on social media \u30fcHarley Quinn and the Joker are an example of this. The hashtag #Jarley has over 57,000 posts on Instagram. This makes younger audiences more likely to see this type of content and normalizes it for them. This negatively impacts their perception of a healthy relationship and will make it more likely for them to end up in a toxic and possibly even abusive relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another problem that social media presents in regards to relationships is the so-called \u201cfear of missing out,\u201d or FOMO. Seeing supposedly-happy couples in your feed can create FOMO and make you ignore red flags or feel pressured to rush into a relationship that you aren\u2019t ready for. It could also make you stay with a toxic partner because you don\u2019t want to deal with the stigma of being alone.<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_22113436\" style=\"width: 444px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-22113436\" class=\" wp-image-22113436\" src=\"https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/screen-shot-2021-01-26-at-2.02.48-pm-600x399.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"434\" height=\"288\" srcset=\"https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/screen-shot-2021-01-26-at-2.02.48-pm-600x399.png 600w, https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/screen-shot-2021-01-26-at-2.02.48-pm-1000x666.png 1000w, https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/screen-shot-2021-01-26-at-2.02.48-pm-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/screen-shot-2021-01-26-at-2.02.48-pm-1080x719.png 1080w, https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/screen-shot-2021-01-26-at-2.02.48-pm-335x223.png 335w, https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/screen-shot-2021-01-26-at-2.02.48-pm-1050x699.png 1050w, https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/screen-shot-2021-01-26-at-2.02.48-pm-150x100.png 150w, https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/screen-shot-2021-01-26-at-2.02.48-pm-500x333.png 500w, https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/screen-shot-2021-01-26-at-2.02.48-pm.png 1448w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 434px) 100vw, 434px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-22113436\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Ginnifer Goodwin (Gigi) and Justin Long (Alex) in He’s Just Not That Into You (2009) (IMDB)<\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">FOMO also applies to platonic friendships as well. Seeing people hanging out and constantly posting about it can make you feel lonely and cause you to maintain friendships that aren\u2019t good for your mental health. It may also push you to go for quantity over quality in order to appear likeable and fun.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Social media is not a reliable place to look for examples in regards to healthy relationships because everything is extremely filtered \u2014 most people use it as a way to showcase the highlights. People often leave out the not-so-pretty aspects of a relationship when posting about them on social media.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Healthy relationships are often not portrayed in movies because there isn\u2019t as much drama for lazy screenwriters to produce. This is bad because it creates repetitive, tropey movies and normalizes toxic and potentially abusive relationships. Social media can exacerbate this by glamorizing couples in movies and media, as well as contributing to the problem by only portraying the glamorous aspects of relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People aren\u2019t perfect, so writing off every relationship because of annoyances or frustrations is not healthy. Some behaviors may be normal in one relationship and toxic in another, there\u2019s a lot of nuance within interpersonal relationships. However, it is important to acknowledge that your perception of healthy relationships may be negatively impacted by movies and social media.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-22111458 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/ellaheadshot-600x597.png\" alt=\"Headshot of columnist Ella Olson.\" width=\"168\" height=\"167\" srcset=\"https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/ellaheadshot-600x597.png 600w, https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/ellaheadshot-1000x995.png 1000w, https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/ellaheadshot-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/ellaheadshot-1536x1528.png 1536w, https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/ellaheadshot-335x333.png 335w, https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/ellaheadshot-1050x1045.png 1050w, https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/ellaheadshot-50x50.png 50w, https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/ellaheadshot-150x149.png 150w, https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/ellaheadshot-500x498.png 500w, https:\/\/usustatesman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/ellaheadshot.png 2000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 168px) 100vw, 168px\" \/><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<p><em>Ella Olson is an opinion writer at the Statesman. She\u2019s originally from Minneapolis, Minnesota and enjoys reading, debate, and hammocking.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>ella.olson@usu.edu<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cLove Actually\u201d is a classic rom-com beloved by many, but I cannot stand that movie. 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